There are fabulous ways that you can express love to your partner, other than just saying the words “I Love You.” The fire usually burns out a little in relationships after a short while, and that feeling of your heart pounding with excitement of being with your significant other is not always felt nearly as often, or even at all.
So, how do you get back that passion, that love, that warm and fuzzy feeling that wraps around you, and penetrates your thoughts like at the beginning of each and every new relationship?
Many will say that ‘Actions Speak Louder Than Words’, so below we have listed the top 5 secrets of seduction to help you show your partner how much you still truly love them:
1. Flirt
This is a friendly light-hearted seduction gesture with the intent of conveying love! Why not send a naughty, sexy email or text message while you are still at work? This reminds your partner that you are thinking about him or her. It also increases intensity, so that you actually look forward to seeing each other next time you see them.
2. Candles
According to ancient Chinese Feng Shui, the color of the seduction candle is red, and the ingredients are pine, musk, patchouli, cedar or juniper. Candles can put the romance back in your relationships. So why not fill your bedroom with scented candles, turn off or dim the lights, just to relax in each others arms? The extra effort will go a long way!
3. Food
You’re mom has always said “The Way To a Man’s Heart Is Through His Stomach,” this however is also the secret of successfully seducing of women as well. Show the love of your life by surprising them with a romantic dinner for two. Add some flowers, a bit of soft music, incense and candles to create a seductive love nest. Prepare aphrodisiac type of foods such as: chili, oysters, chocolate, honey, figs, and walnuts, all said to aid in the stimulation of love hormones.
4. Love Letters and Poems
Leave some type of love note for your partner. You can post this this in the bedroom, kitchen or bathroom before you leave for work. You can also leave a nice love poem say under the pillow so that your love finds this at night, right before bedtime or the first thing in the morning. Send a personal hand written love letter and send it to their work address. This will stir up the proper feelings of love in the privacy of your bedroom. Inspiration for these notes can be taken from music or love poem books.
5. Try To Get Away
There are obviously a lot of distractions in your relationship, such as children or work. You can plan a short vacation for the weekend or even just for the day. Arrange a nice trip to the Spa or a Hotel by the ocean, so that both of you are in a completely different environment than you usually are, where you both can relax and concentrate on each other.
Using these five secrets shows your significant other just how much you really truly love them, and guaranteed to spice up your love life, strengthen your relationship, and keep yourselves happy for years to come!
